Coming back from Injuries
Physical injuries can hurt us emotionally too.
(Billi’s thoughts)
It’s no joke that getting injured sucks.
Well it more than sucks, it can be life changing.
Especially when they happen while doing the one of the things you love most in life. Whether that’s snowboarding, skateboarding, running, rock climbing or any other outdoor activity.
For me it feels like a real punch in the face. Not only are we in pain, we can’t access the thing that regulates your mental health normally.
It definitely is part of the risk when it comes to being addicted to adrenaline sports. It comes with the love and experience but it doesn’t mean it gets any easier when everything you know gets ripped right out from under you.
That’s where I have struggled the most with injuries. It’s not the hurt itself - that can be worked through with the right care.
It’s missing out on being on the snow feeling the wind on my face and getting my mediative flow state going. It’s not being able to wake up with the sunrise, rake in my hand ready to build. It’s the days at home healing while the community at the skate park are in a vibe or it’s not being able to have that mental refreshment of taking a few laps in the pool or lake.
Following that, healing is relearning how to use a body part that used to be engaged without thinking. The dedication it takes to rebuild yourself, eat healthy and think positive all while being displaced from the life you’re used to.
The struggle is real and raw. So many hours of what ifs, what next , the fear of doing it again and deep contemplation around “is it worth it.”
Heck yeah it is, but it’s also a lonely time to go through. Mentally, spiritually and physically challenging.
All to come back stronger and more focused on enjoying the moments that was taken away from you for a while.
Life is so full of the unexpected, doesn’t mean you ever get used to it.
“7 Tips For Recovering Mentally After A Sports Injury”
-By Dan Pillow, PHD for Henry Ford Health.com
(Edited / shortened for our reading. Check out the full article below)
Everyone loves a good comeback story — especially in the world of sports. Take, for example, Tiger Woods and his problematic back or Tom Brady and his recovery from a torn ACL and MCL to win multiple super bowls. Tales like theirs are celebrated season after season as models of determination and mental/physical resilience.
But for every moment of glory that fans see, there are countless hours of hard physical and mental work that take place behind the scenes. That can be easy to forget for amateur athletes or student athletes who are facing their own struggles after getting sidelined with an injury.
“It’s not uncommon for injuries to fuel feelings of isolation, frustration, anxiety and even depression,” says Dan Pillow, Ph.D., a clinical/sport psychologist with Henry Ford Health. “Missing out on competition can affect your emotional well-being, social well-being, and your self-concept or identity.”
So when you’re out of commission and battling doubts, fears or issues of self-confidence, what can you do to ensure you return at full strength? Dr. Pillow outlines a few strategies below:
Psychological Skills To Combat Sports Injuries
1. Set clear and realistic goals. Athletes are often natural goal setters. They’re used to tracking data and monitoring progress to achieve results. When hampered with an injury, though, you may need to rein in your tendency to push yourself. To keep progress achievable, set SMART goals – an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-Bound. For example:
Specific: Run a 5K at the same pace I did pre-injury
Measurable: I will track my running pace using my favorite running app each time I walk/run
Attainable: I know I ran a 5K before, and my injury will heal and allow me to do it again
Relevant: I enjoy running and want to continue running for my health
Time-bound: I will let myself heal for the time my doctor recommended and will increase my mile pace week by week in time for the race I signed up for next month.
2. Visualize a healthy you. Don’t underestimate the power of visualization. Studies have shown that when we visualize an action and actually perform that action, we stimulate the same regions in our brains. If you’re recovering from a broken ankle, visualize yourself sprinting across the field in full stride with two healthy, fully-functioning feet beneath you. Want to make every single one of your three pointers once you’re playing again? Picture each one of them sinking through the net.
3. Be optimistic. When we face big life challenges, our minds can get clouded with negative thoughts. Keep a mantra written somewhere like on your mirror or in your wallet. Read it or repeat it to yourself when doubts creep in. Positive affirmations can be effective too. (Think: Muhammad Ali’s refrain “I am the greatest.”)
4. Focus on the present. Whenever we’re injured or ill, we want to be better now. Athletes, in particular, often want to get back to playing as soon as possible. Truth is, injuries require time and patience to heal, and by focusing on the here and now – instead of the future – you’re actually doing yourself a service. No matter how you heal, it won’t happen tomorrow or the day after. It will happen in the moment, one moment at a time.
5. Honor your feelings. If your sport is a big part of your life (either as a hobby or a career) it’s natural to feel disappointed by your inability to participate. You may be missing teammates, friends or the feelings of accomplishment that scoring a goal or winning a game can bring. If you lose an activity, view it for what it is – a loss. As such, you may experience the five stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance). Recognizing these feelings is the first step to managing them, owning them and moving through them.
6. Accept help and support. No world class athlete gets to the elite level of their game without help – especially after an injury. And no matter how much you’ve trained or dieted on your own, having a guide, coach or therapist can be a helpful motivator.
7. Take control. One of the most frustrating aspects of an injury is that it can make you feel powerless. And while you may not be able to heal a broken bone or torn ligament yourself, you can make conscious choices to rest when appropriate and push yourself when it feels right. By owning your situation, you ensure that your injury doesn’t have power over you.
Almost every athlete will sustain some type of injury at some point in their career. Having a plan in place to deal with setbacks – physical, mental, financial, etc. – can make the recovery process less daunting. That said, it’s not possible to anticipate the obstacles we face or how we’ll respond to them. But whether you’re on the field or on the couch, you can always do your best.
Thought/ Journal Topics:
It can be hard to relive an injury but sometimes we need to do so, so we can let go!
Describe what how the injury happened. What were your initial thoughts and reactions? How did it impact your life or change future plans?
How has this changed your day-to-day life? How has it changed your mindset?
How can you show up every day for yourself, even when you don’t feel your personal best?
What are some of the current obstacles you are facing?
How can you show up every day for yourself, even when you don’t feel your personal best?
What are your short-term and long-term goals for healing and rehabilitation?
